Someone is jealous that I blog for a living

When you have hypocritical liberal bitches, daughter of a sharmoota and sired by a kalbun, whom you do not want to ever associate with bitching about you (without the balls to mention yours truly directly…oh wait, I forgot, you don’t have balls in the first place!) making money from blogs for a living, you know that their jealousy is getting the better of them.

Perhaps their inability to make money from their own blogs is a testament to their lack of writing skills.

In my case, I simply do not bother with these complaints. The money that I get from my blogs, I use it for funding my online activities as well as for that Nikah Fund. By the way, to answer your question, liberal, me and the wifey-to-be will, insha’allah, raise our children to be good, pious Muslims and they will never ever consider apostatising from the religion. I have faith in my capabilities and hers. So why don’t you apostatise to some other religion instead? The world is better off without you claiming to be one.

Buat malu sahaja kamu mengaku diri kamu seorang Muslim.

    19 thoughts on “Someone is jealous that I blog for a living”

    1. I’ve been wanting to figure out how to ask this question and finally got into words. Ah I feel good about it, it finally came out! lol. Well, I’m going through a hard time now with marital neglect by my husband, (no kids), and difficulty in developing friendships (I try to approach some people in my church, we chit chat but it’s hard to cultivate and make it bloom into a good lasting friendship… I make steps to it, but people disconnect). Sometimes i feel that I’m socially unacceptable — I’m 5’4″ and presently struggling with losing weight, 200lbs. I’m walking everyday for 1 hr and doing a cardio dvd program for 50 min, cutting back on food, etc. It’s still so hard to lose, but I keep trying. I think maybe I’m too ugly, unattractive, I don’t know what it is. I go to walmart or barnes and noble and I look around and see families that are having a good time, I deep down feel jealous of them. Well, I’m happy for them, but I wish it was me and my husband this way, you know? He’s always away (drives truck 3-4 weeks, home 2-3days), and when home he’s absent emotionally. I finally got a job in which I’m taking care of 2 alzheimer’s patients, it’s a rewarding job, mon-fri reg. hours, but when saturday and sunday come (I’m thinking ‘hey I’m going to rest and enjoy my weekend’), comes this terrible lonely feeling and anguish and panic. I try to occupy my free time with reading, exercise, crafts, writing a blog, cleaning house, gardening, anything you can think of, but still, sometimes in the middle of an activity I just drop what I’m doing and I look at a point in the wall and stare it, thinking “OH it hurts so bad to be lonely. I wish I had someone here to hold me tight, or say he/she really appreciates me”. I don’t have any family here, all live in my native country, and I can only afford calling them once a week. I wake up during the night with a terrible feeling, like a punch in the guts or something. It really does hurt. I look for opportunities to make friends, as I recognize human beings NEED other people to survive, I can listen and talk reasonably good and maintain a nice upbuilding conversation (I love jokes and laughing, and life itself), but seems that people are too busy or they suddenly go with their groups and I’m not part of them. I’ve had a situation in which I’m talking to someone in my church, and a third person comes and gets in between us and gives the biggest hug to the person I was talking to, then blatantly ignore me. I wish people showed they care. They don’t have to say much. Sometimes a hug is all I need. Or a smile. Little things really matter to me. I don’t need to spend the whole day with someone to feel good. I appreciate being alone sometimes, as this is important too. I don’t call people all the time, sometimes I will ring them to see how they are doing, and want to invite them for a walk in the park or watch a movie, but they always seem to be so busy, although sometimes I think they’re pawning me off. So I guess I’m doomed for loneliness… for life. I’m still young, going on 33, and I dread getting older. Eventually I will have more need for companionship and this thought kinda terrifies me. Well, I try to live a day at a time. I enjoy what I do when I do it, I do my best in what I’m doing at the moment, be it work, or crafts, or writing, whatever it might be. I’m a committed person, dedicated, truthful and reliable. I wish I had a true friend sometimes. I don’t have anyone. I don’t want my husband to be at home 24/7 hugging me, I understand the need for balance, but I think I miss the quality (not quantity) of relationships. What is your opinion on this matter? thanks a lot!
      thanks ellie, that means a lot to me, really.
      Thanks a lot, Hope, that was so sweet of you too. Yes, I do volunteer work too. I am going to start my prereqs for nursing school soon, so I’ll be a little busier, which will be good. But like I said, it doesn’t matter how busy I get, I still feel lonely deep inside throughout the day. I just needed a couple of people (friends around) to give me a call and say hi, how are you, we miss you, or stop by for a cup of coffee. I have invited people over, I don’t do anything fancy or expensive (I don’t eat out much), just for something simple, but people refuse.
      I’m sorry to have written a long paragraph. I was just letting all out of my chest. You don’t have to read if you don’t want to. I know I’m boring, anyways..

    2. well i wrote this in a blog, but im just wondering if anyone feels the same way?? and please dont think im crazy lol

      well today isnt any better than other days. i feel like an outsider. im just trying to live the days as they come…im starting to think there really was and is no reason for my existence. im just born to be alive. i have nothing to do here. nowhere to go . no one to meet. that’s how it really is… i just want to isolate myself and stay away from everybody. i wasn’t supposed to be here. the world is doomed anyway. its not like if i make something of myself that i could save anybody. 2012 its all over… and my dads motto is thank god im not going to live forever. well i think the same way. its sad that he is also very negative about things. i mean i wouldn’t blame him.. look at all he’s been through. he regrets his marriage. that’s why i don’t even want to get married. i mean i dont want to go through the same thing. he always says dont make the same mistakes i made. like look at all hes made of himself and still isnt happy. like how the **** am i going to live and go through all of that if i wont ever be happy? its crazy. life is crazy. im so discouraged. i don’t know why all these people have this motivation to get up in the morning and go to work. like why? to pay these crazy taxes and be paying the thieves in the white house. you think if there is another president that it will be any better? no way. they would never let someone good in the white house. they would never have that because they wouldn’t be making money. if lets say obama trys to do something good for us if he wins? well i kno there gona kill him. this country doesnt want wats good for us. all they want is our money. why would they change things if they r making mad money now? hmm… tell me that. if i have to live , i wish it would be at a different time. at least wen all of this **** wouldn’t be happening. this is not life. this is just some game. the devil is succeeding, making everyone greedy and jealous. and money is going to everyone’s head. once they find the wrong and easy way to make money, they will never stop. its like an addiction. like right now, who isn’t robbing a bank , or mugging some old woman for her purse. i mean god wouldn’t let this happen . the devil is taking over… that’s for sure

    3. Okay, so I’ll make a little introduction of the situation first, and then explain the problem later.

      I’m a first year grad student and, this professor who’s our program director is a really really really nice person. He’s about 53 and got divorced and has been living by himself for a long time. Sometimes we can see that he’s very unhappy all the time because it looks like he’s got nobody in his life but research and teaching which is really sad. but he always appears to be very content and patient with us. Before I came here to join this program, he’s been helping me so much throughout the whole application process, and I’ve been in touch with him by email for almost 8 months. He always replies emails right away and is very helpful. All the information he offers is in detail. I just owe him a lot. And before I came here, I really picture him as somebody, and the other grad students also told me that he’s so nice. We all have very good impression of him.

      But, after two months in this school, I have come to feel that this man is rather narrow-minded. He kept talking about “everybody in the world wants to be an American” or “everybody in the world wants to live in America” kind of things in the class, which I totally hate. I actually expected him to be someone who would step out of that stereotypical American way of thinking, and he’s an educator. He kept conveying that message to a bunch of students who have never been abroad before. That’s really misleading.

      And one more thing, another professor in the school did a pretty nice international media presentation in front of all the faculty a couple of weeks ago, and she’s someone who has real international life experience. And the professor I was talking about used to do international media at the school, and now there’s a new woman here who’s got great experience. He felt like he’s been threatened. and after that professor’s presentation, he came up and said to her “oh, can i stand by you now?” unlike other people saying congratulations, he sounds really jealous. The school is organizing a trip to china soon, and he just kept warning people to pay attention to disease sort of things. feels like China is full of danger. He really doesn’t have much international experience, but is still babbling like he’s an expert. i really don’t like this.

      Now my impression of him has totally changed. I even write my thoughts on his words and behaviors in my blog, but i really feel scared if anyone in the school will see that and then let him know. That blog is some place I havent made public yet, but I just want to speak out my feelings and don’t want to delete the post. Some people suggest me to challenge him when he says something inappropriate or unfair again in the class, but i think that would be too rude for him.

      I think I actually left a really good impression to this professor. He’s been paying attention to me, and has given me a lot of opportunities around the school, some opportunities just hold one slot, and he gave that to me. I’m really thankful. I feel bad thinking of him otherwise now. He really has helped me alot. and he’s our program director which mean we’ll hang out with him a lot. I’m afraid if my blog or opinion got published and if he knows that I feel that way about him, he’s gonna change his view of me too and won’t treat me so well. anyways I have to build connections and I can’t afford to lose the favor of any professors I have, especially him.

      So, what do you think I should do? Should I stay silent and pretend to be satisfied with everything he says in class, and delete that “hate post” on my blog? Will he hate me if I challenge him?

    4. I posted this on my blog, and he occasionally checks it since a lot of it is about him. These are some of the parts in it:

      – It’s been seven months… seven months since I’ve been in love with you. This may sound weird, but it was during that first night that where we began speaking to each other that I began falling for you. Obviously not in love, but after speaking to you for 14 straight, those feelings began to develop. Do you know how crazy that sounds? While I was falling for you, you still loved her. You would talk to me every night about your feelings for her, and as much as it hurt…I tried my best to be happy for you. I just hate thinking that we might have to be apart again after we are finally together. But I will learn to be strong. If I could see into the future and know that 10 years from now, you’ll still be with me, then maybe I wouldn’t be so afraid of waiting.

      -This is going to sound beyond silly, but ever since ‘she’ sent me the link to those things that you and that other woman said to each other, well it’s just made me feel insecure… not exactly more like I don’t know jealousy? Which isn’t exactly normal for me, but if you were to read the conversations you two had with each other, you would know what I mean. Even just going on your Yahoo Profile, and always seeing the ‘I love yous’ between you too, yeah I guess you could say it’s uncomfortable. At least have the common courtesy to delete them? Seeing comments from half naked women on your profile, and the things you two said to each other doesn’t exactly help the situation, now does it? Especially when half the things you said to her, you said to me when we started speaking..and what photos were you talking about exactly? I’m pretty sure you told me ‘you should be flattered I’m asking for them’ or the photos you offered to send her? Yeah, according to you it was all innocent, and just flirting, but was it really? It’s not exactly innocent when someone else’s feelings are on the line… and no I’m not talking about mine.

      -My final reason is, I can’t stand being alone. Don’t get me wrong, I love all the alone time now. But, I just feel like when we finally do get to be together…I’ll get too comfortable with it, and when you really do leave.. I’ll just end up crying myself to sleep every night. Especially since we won’t be able to hear each others voices, I’d be mailing you letters everyday… but I’d only hear from you every few weeks…if that. I’ll be watching movies alone every Friday night, no one to cuddle with when going to sleep, and basically, just doing everything on my own. Coming from university one day when something exciting has happened thinking ‘I can’t wait to tell ____this when I get home’ then remembering that you’re not there. Now, that I’m being completely honest… you know how we enjoy planning what we would like to do in the future? The houses, trips and everything? Sometimes I find it kind of pointless. I mean, what’s the point of planning where we’re going to live with each other when you’re not going to be home for more than half of the time? You’ll be away for 6-7 months while in the Air Force… possibly more, and if you were to join the Navy it could go up to a year. Is planning it really all worth it? I’d wait a lifetime for you, and you know that…but, as selfish as this sounds I wish you and I would could have more time together if you did join. Don’t get me wrong, I WANT you to join, I want you to do whatever makes you happy,but in a way I’d also miss you a lot.

      There’s some parts in there where I sound very jealous, insecure, and just obnoxious. I’m thinking of deleting it from my blog. Should I?

      But, do you think those bits that I posted on here, would offend him?

    5. Tanning? Little Sean Avery was in the hospital and he was only worried about tanning…

      (”I’ve got to get my tan back. I was in the hospital for a week. They don’t have tanning beds there,” Avery said.)
      http://tsn.ca/nhl/story/?id=23.....dlines_nhl
      ^^^Near the bottom of the page….

      I was in the process of watching old Conan O’Briens (which is what I’ve been doing everyday, lol….and I read in Ryan Miller’s blog that he went and saw a live taping of the show the other day, and I’m quite jealous!) and I almost gagged. lol I guess he can get back to tanning.

      Question…..is there someone NOT playing in the Worlds you feel should be?
      Greg…….lol, Yeah I think he might have been joking a bit….I hope. It actually made me laugh. So kudos to Avery for getting me to laugh today.
      Kimberly…..No Conan is taking over for Leno, he’s not going anywhere but California (I think)….lol. I’ve told this to like 500 people this week……People will eventually think I’m some creepy Conan stalker. lmao
      Greg….Yes, Avery did make me laugh. lol. Now let’s hope he was only kidding….because if I find out he wasn’t my laugh will slowly turn into a creeped out laugh. =b

    6. There is this girl I know, were not close friends but we are friends from school. Recently I have been having some problems wit her (I am a girl as well both 18 years old)

      She has been posting things about me on the internet and over posting my blog type things trying to make me out to be a bad person when they aren’t even bad things. She has posted several times that I love myself too much and I’m really jealous of her but will never admit it etc when I’m not and its bothering me that she thinks that.

      If I catch her out she either doesn’t reply or starts sending me loads of apologies then later tries a different approach to these things.

      Her worst issue is saying nasty things about people unable to mention their names etc or tag them in posts or confront them in person live message etc and ends up with people posting names in a big list finger pointing at everyone which is unfair and she is always suspicious that I’ve done something as I have been involved in incidents but one of them was some mentally ill girl causing trouble the other was someone I didn’t know but she said we were at school with etc

      She plays low cards trying to be innocent by saying how sad and alone she is and how upset she is today because she’s an orphan even though her dads alive and trying to make people feel sorry for her which yeah we should but she mentions this every single day and posts things that people have sent to her having a go at her and about how emotional and attention seeking she is and how they call her ugly like 1000 times a day and its really irritating.

      I have warned her but she isn’t going to stop she is posting her pictures etc hundreds of times a day on those sites the same ones even from over a week prior to this and it is infuriating. She is nice one minute then nasty the next and makes people believe she’s a sad innocent little girl when shes manipulative.

      What can I do? not block or remove her from the internet because then more posts etc arise from it all.

      She really is getting up my nose and being such an annoyance any ideas on how I can get people to see through her or catch her out? she is even posting pictures of herself on a social networkingx dating website of her and her bf but trying to crop him out of the picture.
      I have deleted her in the past and she started making all sorts of vicious stories and accusations about me partly because of hear say of other people I don’t even talk to. I’m worried if I remove her there will be come kind of come back. She seems to think were friends and I have no idea what to do with this person she is the most irritating person in the world. If I say something to little miss innocent people are going to come down extremely hard on me because she’s too perfect to make a mistake which is even more infuriating.

      She is also on facebook likely rude pages to aim at me and several other of her ‘friends’ it is really annoying she always says I’m too pretty and likes all my photos/posts then she starts saying I’m jealous of her etc

      Apart from removing her what can I do?

    7. There is this girl I know, were not close friends but we are friends from school. Recently I have been having some problems wit her (I am a girl as well both 18 years old)

      She has been posting things about me on the internet and over posting my blog type things trying to make me out to be a bad person when they aren’t even bad things. She has posted several times that I love myself too much and I’m really jealous of her but will never admit it etc when I’m not and its bothering me that she thinks that.

      If I catch her out she either doesn’t reply or starts sending me loads of apologies then later tries a different approach to these things.

      Her worst issue is saying nasty things about people unable to mention their names etc or tag them in posts or confront them in person live message etc and ends up with people posting names in a big list finger pointing at everyone which is unfair and she is always suspicious that I’ve done something as I have been involved in incidents but one of them was some mentally ill girl causing trouble the other was someone I didn’t know but she said we were at school with etc

      She plays low cards trying to be innocent by saying how sad and alone she is and how upset she is today because she’s an orphan even though her dads alive and trying to make people feel sorry for her which yeah we should but she mentions this every single day and posts things that people have sent to her having a go at her and about how emotional and attention seeking she is and how they call her ugly like 1000 times a day and its really irritating.

      I have warned her but she isn’t going to stop she is posting her pictures etc hundreds of times a day on those sites the same ones even from over a week prior to this and it is infuriating. She is nice one minute then nasty the next and makes people believe she’s a sad innocent little girl when shes manipulative.

      What can I do? not block or remove her from the internet because then more posts etc arise from it all.

      She really is getting up my nose and being such an annoyance any ideas on how I can get people to see through her or catch her out? she is even posting pictures of herself on a social networkingx dating website of her and her bf but trying to crop him out of the picture.
      I have deleted her in the past and she started making all sorts of vicious stories and accusations about me partly because of hear say of other people I don’t even talk to. I’m worried if I remove her there will be come kind of come back. She seems to think were friends and I have no idea what to do with this person she is the most irritating person in the world. If I say something to little miss innocent people are going to come down extremely hard on me because she’s too perfect to make a mistake which is even more infuriating.

      She is also on facebook likely rude pages to aim at me and several other of her ‘friends’ it is really annoying she always says I’m too pretty and likes all my photos/posts then she starts saying I’m jealous of her etc

      Apart from removing her what can I do?

    8. Please read this story and tell me where I’m going wrong or just what you think.
      So this is my first ever blog! little unsure as what to write really.

      I’m going to write exactly what I feel and I guess if you don’t like it then you just don’t have to read it… Simple really!

      Something that is always on my mind is an incident that happened in my past. I’m not someone that likes to live in the past and I usually don’t dwell on things but this one thing has just got to me so bad.

      I’ve had it in my head, mostly at the back of my mind until the past year or so. When I was 16 I met a man who I fell for. I guess it was an infatyation because I’m now married and I know that the feelings I had don’t compare much to the feelings and love I have for my husband. I felt we had a good relationship at the time, almost perfect – as perfect as a relationship can be when your 16. There was no playing games, just honest respect for one another and some great laughs. However this all change. When I turned 18 things got so messed up that now I regret ever being with this man. I know they say ‘no regrets’ but hey I have one, so there!

      A friend that I had met when I was 16 who became close friends with me and my best friends, lets call her ‘girl X’ turned my life upside down. Girl X actually introduced me to my then boyfriend because he was actually good friends with her bloke. We all got on great for about 18months, double dating and what not. Girl X then split with her bloke and through that became very reliant on my bloke and me. Gradually Girl X started spending more time alone with my bloke which started to unsettle me.

      Girl X was very beautiful, I thought quite highly of myself back then but next to her I was the ugly sister! Her parents were loade so she had everything going and she was very smart and most of really popular. On her 18th, her folks bought her a car, it just happened to be the same car as my blokes. Not bothered about that, just thought it was a coincidence that they liked the same car, let me just say that they both had money to burn, or their folks did.

      Rumours started flying round sixth form that they we’re seen together in odd places, as well as the two of them in the jacuzzi at the gym together. I was aware of ‘stirrers’ at my school and Girl X was supposed to be a good mate so I just played it down. However, Girl X started phoning my bloke for the smallest of things and asking him to do her favours and spend time with her. This is when the arguing began. I just didn’t trust him any more as he was wanting to help all the time instead of being with me. Girl X and I started drifting apart and I didn’t like being around her as much I increasingly became very jealous of her and angry with her as she was causing lots of problems with my relationship with my boyfriend, just because hers went tits up!

      I then did a bit of sneaking around and careful listening as I had suspicions that something was going on between them. I was becoming increasingly paranoid, which my friends (inc Girl X) and my family were very quick to emphasise. Girl X and my bloke’s stories didn’t add up, if they said they had seen eachother, they would both say different location or a different time (nice cover up guys! work harder next time!).

      Also at this time I had a lot of family pressure on me to do well in my A’levels as I was looked at as the Golden child who always gave 100%. I could feel myself getting weaker and more insecure. The rumours of what Girl X and my bloke were up to picked up speed again, so I confronted them individually. They both denied it but weren’t angry with me for asking, they said they understood why I had asked, as they had heard the rumours to. This made me even more paranoid, why weren’t they defending themselves! Lots of weeks later, lots of phone calls later and lots of pulling my hair out, losing a lot of weight and bad relations with my parents as I was a nightmare to live with, at school one day a friend sat me down and said that she had seen them kissing outside the gym the previous night. For some reason this time i completely believed every word I was been told. I lost it. I confronte her again, yelling and crying – again she denied it and said she would never do anything like that to me. I rang him and asked him and he also denied it, bla bla bla same old shit.. he told me to go to his after college to talk so I did. I remember driving there crying and shaking, I just needed to know, my head was a mess. When I got to my blokes house, we argued, I accused, he denied and I drove off in a rage.

      What happens next is a bit of a blur except what I can remember…

      I drove to the supermarket, waited for my eyes to dry and bought 2 packets of paracetomal. I drove home, opened the door and said hello to my step dad, he couldn’t tell anything was wrong. I got a large glass of water and went to my room. I split open the packets and swallowed 36 tablets. I then did my homework and think of them again. I got a call from a girl, another girl, confessing that she had been sleeping with my boyfriend. I said I didn’t believe her, surely i would have realised if he was seeing another girl as well as Girl X. I felt stupid! and a fool! She said she would prove it and prove that he was in love with her. My mum came in my room as she heard me crying and I told her everything. She said that it was best that I had anearly night and thinks would look brighter tomorrow.. My bloke had them wrapped around his little finger! I was in bed and the doorbell went, my mum answered and a girl handed her a card. It was a card that you get with flowers and it was my boyfriends handwriting saying that he loved this girl and wanted to be with her. My mum gave it to me and started crying to… I just went to sleep, absaloutely exhausted and emotionless.

      It was 1 am and I work up and ran to the loo to throw up… this happened over an over for the next hour, then my mum got up and came in. She asked if I was ok and stayed with me I while then she just came out with “You haven’t done anything stuped have you?” I stared, “You haven’t taken anything have you?” I told her what I done and how many I’d taken. She phoned an ambulance and I don’t remember much else.

      I was unconcious for hours and I woke in hospital in a bad way. I had liver failure because of the amount of time the tablets had been in my body.

      More to come… I have to go out. Please read the rest later.

    9. I am also in ministry, and some may say that I am a coward to hide behind a screen name; I admit that, I am afraid — afraid because everything that has been written here thus far is the Truth. There is no conspiracy here. So much deceit and intimidation goes on within the walls of this church to keep the leadership directly under the thumb of the Senior Pastor. It is not a black/white issue. It is an issue of complete and utter submission to the will of the Pastor…not the will of God, but the will of Pastor Cymbala. All the leaders know it, but they, like myself, need this job, and we know that if we don’t conform, we will be OUT, plain and simple. If you dare do anything that ticks him or his offspring off, they will call you in, “question” your commitment to the ministry, and usually, fire you on the spot and then just say, “Trust God, He’ll provide”, while you go file for unemployment. I’ve seen it happen a thousand times, and it will continue to happen unless someone braver than I takes all of this seriously enough to finally confront the Pastor, if they can even get him to listen, which is highly unlikely….they will be branded “disobedient, troublemaker, conspirator”, etc., because that is how abusive leadership operates…by fear and intimidation. We leaders do speak amongst ourselves, and yes, we are hypocrites. We smile and praise the Lord while we live in fear of retaliation if we dare speak our “own” mind. So you naysayers out there…..you know not of what you so eagerly defend. But God knows, and the day of reckoning is coming. Not because of this blog, but because God is a just and loving God, and pride comes before the fall. I wish Pastor Cymbala no harm; I just pray that God will get a hold of his heart and show him how pride and self-interest have corrupted a once very godly man. He is not evil, he is basking in the glory of his own hype, and lives in a fantasy world where HIS word is law. God is a jealous God and will share his glory with NO ONE, not even PJC.

    10. I posted this on my blog, and he occasionally checks it since a lot of it is about him. These are some of the parts in it:

      – It’s been seven months… seven months since I’ve been in love with you. This may sound weird, but it was during that first night that where we began speaking to each other that I began falling for you. Obviously not in love, but after speaking to you for 14 straight, those feelings began to develop. Do you know how crazy that sounds? While I was falling for you, you still loved her. You would talk to me every night about your feelings for her, and as much as it hurt…I tried my best to be happy for you. I just hate thinking that we might have to be apart again after we are finally together. But I will learn to be strong. If I could see into the future and know that 10 years from now, you’ll still be with me, then maybe I wouldn’t be so afraid of waiting.

      -This is going to sound beyond silly, but ever since ‘she’ sent me the link to those things that you and that other woman said to each other, well it’s just made me feel insecure… not exactly more like I don’t know jealousy? Which isn’t exactly normal for me, but if you were to read the conversations you two had with each other, you would know what I mean. Even just going on your Yahoo Profile, and always seeing the ‘I love yous’ between you too, yeah I guess you could say it’s uncomfortable. At least have the common courtesy to delete them? Seeing comments from half naked women on your profile, and the things you two said to each other doesn’t exactly help the situation, now does it? Especially when half the things you said to her, you said to me when we started speaking..and what photos were you talking about exactly? I’m pretty sure you told me ‘you should be flattered I’m asking for them’ or the photos you offered to send her? Yeah, according to you it was all innocent, and just flirting, but was it really? It’s not exactly innocent when someone else’s feelings are on the line… and no I’m not talking about mine.

      -My final reason is, I can’t stand being alone. Don’t get me wrong, I love all the alone time now. But, I just feel like when we finally do get to be together…I’ll get too comfortable with it, and when you really do leave.. I’ll just end up crying myself to sleep every night. Especially since we won’t be able to hear each others voices, I’d be mailing you letters everyday… but I’d only hear from you every few weeks…if that. I’ll be watching movies alone every Friday night, no one to cuddle with when going to sleep, and basically, just doing everything on my own. Coming from university one day when something exciting has happened thinking ‘I can’t wait to tell ____this when I get home’ then remembering that you’re not there. Now, that I’m being completely honest… you know how we enjoy planning what we would like to do in the future? The houses, trips and everything? Sometimes I find it kind of pointless. I mean, what’s the point of planning where we’re going to live with each other when you’re not going to be home for more than half of the time? You’ll be away for 6-7 months while in the Air Force… possibly more, and if you were to join the Navy it could go up to a year. Is planning it really all worth it? I’d wait a lifetime for you, and you know that…but, as selfish as this sounds I wish you and I would could have more time together if you did join. Don’t get me wrong, I WANT you to join, I want you to do whatever makes you happy,but in a way I’d also miss you a lot.

      There’s some parts in there where I sound very jealous, insecure, and just obnoxious. I’m thinking of deleting it from my blog. Should I? If you want to read a few more parts here it is:http://laurahenrique.tumblr.com/ titled ‘Maybe in a parallel world, we’ll never have to be apart’.

      But, do you think those bits that I posted on here, would offend him?
      Forget the link I posted ,it still hasn’t showed up. My question is, do you think he’ll be offended? Should I not post this?

    11. Right, well, sorry if this doesn’t make sense, but I think it’s lots of people: Garrett, Jenna, Lucas, Ian, Caleb, Mona, Ali, Maya, Mike, Ezra, Wren and the list goes on.
      Point 1) The thing is I do think it’s Ali or Courtney, I think Ali is dead but Courtney is alive and the evil twin. She could be living with Jason and that’s why there’s always someone up there? Maybe Jason is the only one who understands Courtney? They were both jealous of Allison right? It would make sense… Doctor Sullivan seemed to know who ‘A’ was and I think Courtney was one of her patients because she was evil and twisted if you understand me? But, the only thing is if ‘A’ is Alison, someone would have spotted her, like at the end of the Dance-a-thon episode Aria’s mum wouldn’t have said what she had said, Alison can’t just go walking around can she? Someone would spot her.
      Point 2) SPOILER: I read this on one of the blogs, I dont know if it’s true, but apparently ‘A’ is Mona. Yes, I know she’s A in the books, and I know the producers and writers are doing it differently, it was said in an interview, but when Maya was throwing ‘A’s things out, Mona picked up Alison’s diary and then knew all of the secrets- APPARENTLY.
      Point 3) It could be Maya? She seems suspicious, like she had the same boots as Hannah? And she only went out of town because she thought it was too risky for her to stay.. I dont know about that though- she seems innocent enough. But the body was found as soon as she moved in?
      Point 4) Jenna. Well, she is soooo creepy, right? And in one of the episodes where it ended with ‘You alright there Pretty Eyes?’ Something along those lines.. I read on a blog and I agree that Jenna has already had her eye surgery, and remember when we had the episode with the flashback and we saw Jenna without her glasses, her eyes seemed beautiful! And also Hannah and Jenna were in the elevator, she used the shiny wall as a mirror when she was putting on lipstick; CLUE.
      I know her and Garrett set the girls up, but they have to have something to do with A!
      Point 5) Caleb. He knows how to crack phones and hack them, what does he keep on his laptop and phone? A could use him to get into the phones, just an idea, but he loves Hannah too much, or is that an act? He also left town didn’t he? And remember when Jenna used him to get into Hannah’s phone and Jenna made him do stuff, he could still be doing that, we know what’s he’s capable of.
      Point 6) Melissa- she’s always been hating on Spencer seeing as Spencer has always taken her boyfriends, and now it’s revenge.

      I think that A has used all of the suspects above as listed at the top in some way:
      Garrett: Setting the girls up. Motive: He’s in love with Jenna and is annoyed that she lost her eyesight because of them?
      Jenna: I think she’s a main ‘A’, but she’s blind!? Garrett and her are definitely doing something way too suspicious.
      Lucas: Now, I haven’t watched the episode of him and Hannah on the boat, I remember reading about it on the Wikipedia PLL website, but he has been used to get to Hannah.
      Ian: Ian’s dead, right? But he needed that something from Spencer!
      Caleb: To get to Hannah.
      Mona: She could be a main A?
      Ali: Come on it’s Allison!
      Maya: To get to Emily.
      Mike: There was something on his laptop he didn’t want his Mum seeing, remember? And when he was stealing the equipment, I mean, what was that for?
      Ezra: I read on a blog that it could be him because this all started when he arrived right? But I doubt it, and some point I reckon he was used to get to Aria.
      Wren: When he got those drugs for Ian before he died, he seems innocent but creepy, aswell.

      And what’s up with that detective/police guy? Who’s always asking questions and so convinced he will get the girls to tell him, he seems soooo creepy! Maybe it’s just his job, but it’s like he knows about the A thing and is waiting for the girls to tell him?

      Allison said: Two can keep a secret if one of them is dead.
      Can anyone explain this to me!? I realise it is something so crucial to the show but I dont understand it.

      So who do you think A is? And WHY?

    12. Tanning? Little Sean Avery was in the hospital and he was only worried about tanning…

      (”I’ve got to get my tan back. I was in the hospital for a week. They don’t have tanning beds there,” Avery said.)
      http://tsn.ca/nhl/story/?id=23.....dlines_nhl
      ^^^Near the bottom of the page….

      I was in the process of watching old Conan O’Briens (which is what I’ve been doing everyday, lol….and I read in Ryan Miller’s blog that he went and saw a live taping of the show the other day, and I’m quite jealous!) and I almost gagged. lol I guess he can get back to tanning.

      Question…..is there someone NOT playing in the Worlds you feel should be?
      Greg…….lol, Yeah I think he might have been joking a bit….I hope. It actually made me laugh. So kudos to Avery for getting me to laugh today.
      Kimberly…..No Conan is taking over for Leno, he’s not going anywhere but California (I think)….lol. I’ve told this to like 500 people this week……People will eventually think I’m some creepy Conan stalker. lmao
      Greg….Yes, Avery did make me laugh. lol. Now let’s hope he was only kidding….because if I find out he wasn’t my laugh will slowly turn into a creeped out laugh. =b

    13. I’ve been wanting to figure out how to ask this question and finally got into words. Ah I feel good about it, it finally came out! lol. Well, I’m going through a hard time now with marital neglect by my husband, (no kids), and difficulty in developing friendships (I try to approach some people in my church, we chit chat but it’s hard to cultivate and make it bloom into a good lasting friendship… I make steps to it, but people disconnect). Sometimes i feel that I’m socially unacceptable — I’m 5’4″ and presently struggling with losing weight, 200lbs. I’m walking everyday for 1 hr and doing a cardio dvd program for 50 min, cutting back on food, etc. It’s still so hard to lose, but I keep trying. I think maybe I’m too ugly, unattractive, I don’t know what it is. I go to walmart or barnes and noble and I look around and see families that are having a good time, I deep down feel jealous of them. Well, I’m happy for them, but I wish it was me and my husband this way, you know? He’s always away (drives truck 3-4 weeks, home 2-3days), and when home he’s absent emotionally. I finally got a job in which I’m taking care of 2 alzheimer’s patients, it’s a rewarding job, mon-fri reg. hours, but when saturday and sunday come (I’m thinking ‘hey I’m going to rest and enjoy my weekend’), comes this terrible lonely feeling and anguish and panic. I try to occupy my free time with reading, exercise, crafts, writing a blog, cleaning house, gardening, anything you can think of, but still, sometimes in the middle of an activity I just drop what I’m doing and I look at a point in the wall and stare it, thinking “OH it hurts so bad to be lonely. I wish I had someone here to hold me tight, or say he/she really appreciates me”. I don’t have any family here, all live in my native country, and I can only afford calling them once a week. I wake up during the night with a terrible feeling, like a punch in the guts or something. It really does hurt. I look for opportunities to make friends, as I recognize human beings NEED other people to survive, I can listen and talk reasonably good and maintain a nice upbuilding conversation (I love jokes and laughing, and life itself), but seems that people are too busy or they suddenly go with their groups and I’m not part of them. I’ve had a situation in which I’m talking to someone in my church, and a third person comes and gets in between us and gives the biggest hug to the person I was talking to, then blatantly ignore me. I wish people showed they care. They don’t have to say much. Sometimes a hug is all I need. Or a smile. Little things really matter to me. I don’t need to spend the whole day with someone to feel good. I appreciate being alone sometimes, as this is important too. I don’t call people all the time, sometimes I will ring them to see how they are doing, and want to invite them for a walk in the park or watch a movie, but they always seem to be so busy, although sometimes I think they’re pawning me off. So I guess I’m doomed for loneliness… for life. I’m still young, going on 33, and I dread getting older. Eventually I will have more need for companionship and this thought kinda terrifies me. Well, I try to live a day at a time. I enjoy what I do when I do it, I do my best in what I’m doing at the moment, be it work, or crafts, or writing, whatever it might be. I’m a committed person, dedicated, truthful and reliable. I wish I had a true friend sometimes. I don’t have anyone. I don’t want my husband to be at home 24/7 hugging me, I understand the need for balance, but I think I miss the quality (not quantity) of relationships. What is your opinion on this matter? thanks a lot!
      thanks ellie, that means a lot to me, really.
      Thanks a lot, Hope, that was so sweet of you too. Yes, I do volunteer work too. I am going to start my prereqs for nursing school soon, so I’ll be a little busier, which will be good. But like I said, it doesn’t matter how busy I get, I still feel lonely deep inside throughout the day. I just needed a couple of people (friends around) to give me a call and say hi, how are you, we miss you, or stop by for a cup of coffee. I have invited people over, I don’t do anything fancy or expensive (I don’t eat out much), just for something simple, but people refuse.
      I’m sorry to have written a long paragraph. I was just letting all out of my chest. You don’t have to read if you don’t want to. I know I’m boring, anyways..

    14. A little background:
      I use the term “wedding” loosely as we’ve been married for nearly four years. We were from separate cities, so as per our religion, we had a small (by small, I mean two witnesses – neither of whom were family or close friends because they’re from other cities or overseas) religious/legal wedding (or nikah) so we could visit and stay together, and made plans to host all our family and friends for our wedding party several months later. We had the bare minimum (no cake, no big dresses, no photographer) for the ceremony (if you’d call it that), and didn’t have any sort celebration before or after whatsoever because we assumed we’d do all that later with our loved ones. However, we lost our jobs and I lost my home (what would’ve been our future home) in the recession, and with no foreseen means to fund a wedding, and not wanting to be apart, we were forced to cancel and scrap our plans, pick up and just carry on with life.
      Yes, we’re married, and that’s what’s important. And, even without a wedding, we’re still as married as we’ll ever be. But we both feel as though we missed out a little – especially since we have no photos of an occasion where all our friends and families are together to show our now two-year-old daughter some day. Weddings are very important in our families – especially to my husband’s family – and both we and they feel sad we didn’t get to share this moment with them. For our fifth anniversary, we want to plan “the wedding we never had” party/reception. Sure, we want to celebrate our union and our budding family, but we mostly want to highlight and celebrate our families and friends who helped (are helping) us make it through our hardships. Some people have suggested a renewal of our vows, which is a thought given we didn’t take any truly personal ones at the time, but I feel five years isn’t long enough to “renew.” We don’t want to wait either because a couple of our family members are in failing health, and we want them to be there with us.

      As for the questions:
      (1) I cannot deny I want to wear a nice dress with my daughter, and see my husband in a nice suit or tux, but I want no delusional pretending it’s the real deal, no veil, or train. No garter toss. No gift registry. We just want a fun-filled, entertaining and lighthearted evening, but still somewhat elegant (though not extravagant). What are some ideas on how the invitation should read? how do we keep it from being tacky?

      (2) Since the actual ceremony (the “I Dos”) is the real centerpiece of a wedding or reception, what are some creative and unique ideas for things we can have at ours to make a good time had by all, and a time for truly honoring those who have helped carry us through the roughest, and most rewarding five years of our lives?
      Some answers below say I should call it an “anniversary party.” Do we celebrate fifth anniversaries? I feel if I say, “come to our fifth anniversary party” I sound like those teenagers that have a big to-do for their “three months, six months and nine months “anniversaries” (which are not annual, by the way, so cannot be anni- anything).”

    15. Okay, so I’ll make a little introduction of the situation first, and then explain the problem later.

      I’m a first year grad student and, this professor who’s our program director is a really really really nice person. He’s about 53 and got divorced and has been living by himself for a long time. Sometimes we can see that he’s very unhappy all the time because it looks like he’s got nobody in his life but research and teaching which is really sad. but he always appears to be very content and patient with us. Before I came here to join this program, he’s been helping me so much throughout the whole application process, and I’ve been in touch with him by email for almost 8 months. He always replies emails right away and is very helpful. All the information he offers is in detail. I just owe him a lot. And before I came here, I really picture him as somebody, and the other grad students also told me that he’s so nice. We all have very good impression of him.

      But, after two months in this school, I have come to feel that this man is rather narrow-minded. He kept talking about “everybody in the world wants to be an American” or “everybody in the world wants to live in America” kind of things in the class, which I totally hate. I actually expected him to be someone who would step out of that stereotypical American way of thinking, and he’s an educator. He kept conveying that message to a bunch of students who have never been abroad before. That’s really misleading.

      And one more thing, another professor in the school did a pretty nice international media presentation in front of all the faculty a couple of weeks ago, and she’s someone who has real international life experience. And the professor I was talking about used to do international media at the school, and now there’s a new woman here who’s got great experience. He felt like he’s been threatened. and after that professor’s presentation, he came up and said to her “oh, can i stand by you now?” unlike other people saying congratulations, he sounds really jealous. The school is organizing a trip to china soon, and he just kept warning people to pay attention to disease sort of things. feels like China is full of danger. He really doesn’t have much international experience, but is still babbling like he’s an expert. i really don’t like this.

      Now my impression of him has totally changed. I even write my thoughts on his words and behaviors in my blog, but i really feel scared if anyone in the school will see that and then let him know. That blog is some place I havent made public yet, but I just want to speak out my feelings and don’t want to delete the post. Some people suggest me to challenge him when he says something inappropriate or unfair again in the class, but i think that would be too rude for him.

      I think I actually left a really good impression to this professor. He’s been paying attention to me, and has given me a lot of opportunities around the school, some opportunities just hold one slot, and he gave that to me. I’m really thankful. I feel bad thinking of him otherwise now. He really has helped me alot. and he’s our program director which mean we’ll hang out with him a lot. I’m afraid if my blog or opinion got published and if he knows that I feel that way about him, he’s gonna change his view of me too and won’t treat me so well. anyways I have to build connections and I can’t afford to lose the favor of any professors I have, especially him.

      So, what do you think I should do? Should I stay silent and pretend to be satisfied with everything he says in class, and delete that “hate post” on my blog? Will he hate me if I challenge him?

    16. Okay here it goes………….My fiancee and I have been together for 4 1/2 wonderful years. We have a 6 month old son together and we are getting married early next year. About 6 years ago Dan (My fiancee) had a little girl with his ex girlfriend. Well when their daughter was a year old they broke up (because they basically couldn’t stand eachother anymore) and 2 weeks later his ex hooks up with one of his best friends. Dan got to see his daughter for about another year and within that year me and him got together. Well out of the blue on Christmas his ex says that he could have his daughter for only an hour that day to take her over to her grandpas (dan’s dad) and he lived 40 minutes away so she made it impossible for him that day. So Dan just took her over to his house to open her presents there and then brought her home. He was only 5 minutes late and she threatened him with all of bullcrap and he tried for 6 months to see his daughter and she made ridiculously impossible. They moved, Changed their cell numbers and everything. I told Dan to go to court with it but he wanted to wait it out and see what would happen (bad idea and you will see why) well we never heard from her again until Oct. 8th 2008 (at this time I was 2 months pregnant with our son) I came across her profile on myspace and she had written a very nasty blog about Dan and I a month prior of me seeing her profile, now I had no idea what she ever looked like because I never met her until I saw her pictures on her myspace and saw Dan’s daughter. I wrote her back confronting her and she wrote an apology and i thanked her for that and that was the end of it…………….or so I thought! Then a week later she writes me an e-mail on myspace saying I was stalking her myspace profile because her profile tracker said I was on there 5 times which i wasn’t I was on there maybe twice and thats just when I came across her profile and I told her that and she didn’t believe so I decided to use her own weapons againest her, I got a tracker to see if she came on to mine just out of curiosity and she did/does at LEAST 7 times a day(she is NOT my friend on myspace and it’s on public so thats how she gets on my profile, but I could care less if she does anyways it’s just funny). Then she started writing more stuff like e-mails, blogs and status messages about us and I was kinda amused by it the whole time because I wasn’t doing shit and she was writing all of this nasty stuff about us and I was just like whatever say what you want. Then she wrote something about our unborn child at the time and this is what she said and I qoute ” Their child doesn’t need to be here there is no reason for him to be in this world, he can’t take care of his first kid why should he have another one.” So right there I was pissed so I wrote her an e-mail telling her to just leave us alone because you have been badgering me the whole time I’ve been pregnant and then a month later she files for child support against him. She still continues to try and start shit with me on the internet she comes on to my profile 8 times a day and then complains and bitches that I stalk hers. I have gone on to her profile a few more times but that was to print out EVERYTHING she has put up about us.She denies ever saying and writing things about us and she says that she is happy that Dan had found someone and that he had another baby and that she is NO WAY near jealous of us. I am seriously thinking about getting a PPO on her. Like I said I keep my profile on public because I want to and I could care less if she comes on to mine. What I want to know is………….I mean what is this girls malfunction, em I the only one who thinks she’s super jealous that he moved on and has a happy life with a family and especially when she didn’t start harassing me until she found out I was pregnant.

    17. I see this often in short-lived high school romances, or even with young adults (of which I am one) –

      Hpothetical, yet often-seen situation: awww…a happy couple…they each have a separate profile in Myspace…but they, for some reason, wish to combine their profile, as if they as a couple were one person (laughs…)

      Why is this??

      I realize this is not a Myspace technical question, but don’t know where else to ask it.

    18. hi. my sis is a 17 year old high school student.
      someone wrote something nasty about my sis on their blog.
      now a whole school is talking about it.
      we live in the us and we don’t know if there’s a law about that kind of harassment.
      what should we do? my sis is very angry and depressed.

      (in their blog, they wrote that my sis was slut. ugly, lesbian, liar, shoplifter etc etc.)
      none of the above is true.
      we still don’t know who and how many ppl are behind of this blog. it’s anonymous.

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